The Beauty of Sibling Involvement
- Sheila Brown LM, CPM
- Jul 23
- 1 min read
Updated: Jul 30
When we invite children to participate in prenatal visits, we're not just accommodating families—we're creating opportunities for bonding that begin long before birth.
The look of amazement when a 4-year-old first hears their sibling's heartbeat through the doppler, or the gentle way a toddler wants to "help" measure mama's belly, reminds us why family-centered care is so important.
Preparing Children for Visits
We encourage parents to:
- Explain what will happen in age-appropriate terms
- Bring comfort items or quiet activities if needed
- Set realistic expectations about behavior and participation
- Prepare for questions and honest conversations
Creating Engaging Experiences
- Ultrasound viewing: Children love seeing their sibling move and wave on screen
- Heartbeat listening: Using child-friendly explanations like "baby's heart sounds like a galloping horse"
- Measurement assistance: Letting them help hold the measuring tape or observe fundal height checks
- Educational materials: Child-friendly books, charts, or models that explain pregnancy and birth
Benefits We've Observed
For the Child
- Reduced anxiety about mama's changing body and medical visits
- Increased excitement about becoming a big sibling
- Better understanding of pregnancy as a natural, healthy process
- Stronger family bonds through shared experiences
For Parents
- Easier logistics when childcare isn't available
- Opportunity to address children's questions in a supportive environment
- Witnessing beautiful moments of sibling connection
- Modeling healthy attitudes toward healthcare and pregnancy
For Our Practice
- Deeper family relationships and trust
- More comprehensive care that considers whole family dynamics
We cannot wait to meet the big brothers and sisters in your family!



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